Parenting Beyond Conflict...    A six-week class to support separated and divorcing/divorced parents/ family members in raising children between two homes, minimizing the impact of conflict on the children, exploring strategies for communicating effectively, and  keeping the focus on the children and their safety.

                     Three offerings: A 
 Monday evening live Online* series; OR a Tuesday, evening in-person series in Portland, Oregon
                                                     OR a Tuesday lunchtime live Online* series (New!); each meet for six weeks.  
Evening groups meet from 6:00-7:45 p.m.;  Lunchtime groups meet from 11:30 a.m. -1:00 p.m.  
                               Facilitated by Judith Swinney, J.D.        Email:      Phone:  503-972-5683
Next start dates:

 Monday, February 18, 2019, (Live, Online * Group - 6:00-7:45 p.m.)
Tuesday, February 19 (Live Online* Lunchtime Group - 11:30 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.) 
Tuesday, February 19 ( In-Person, NE Portland, Oregon Evening Group - 6:00-7:45 p.m.)       
These small groups meet for six weeks (evenings from 6:00-7:45 p.m., or lunchtime from 11:30 a.m.-1:00 p.m.), and explore a variety of concepts through class discussion, video, role-play and on-line and skill-building exercises.  We discuss traps to avoid, ways to protect children, stay sane, get un-stuck, and stay  out of court -  while keeping children safe.  Group participants value the support they get and give to each other.

Class fee is $225.00 per parent ; $100.00 for each step-parent/new partner/extended family member.
*Note:  The online class is for parents who can be seated in a private, quiet space away from others, especially children, and able to see/hear and be seen/heard by others.  We meet all together at the same time, via  A phone screen will not be large enough to view all along with handouts. It wil be important for parents to attend all six sessions to complete the course.
To request a brochure by email or mail, or for more information, please send email to, or call  503-972-5683.  I will email you the brochure and registration form to assist with registration.   Classes fill quickly.

Additional services include:

Supervised parenting time/reunification support, Parent education/coaching; support for parents and children (re)connecting safely and appropriately; Positive discipline; support for the safety and protection of children with an emphasis on prevention. 

For additional information or to discuss your particular needs, call Judith at 503-972-5683.


Helpful resources:

Putting your Parenting Plan together:
A great parenting plan (and safety-focused parenting plan) guide complete with forms for considering what will work for your unique family. divorced/divorcing parents.  Helps parents keep the focus on the children-not to be missed. never-married parents raising children from two homes.   -for separated parents working through their issues.

A resource for fathers in general:  National Fatherhood Initiative -

A resource for drug-free kids and their parents:

Trauma Nurses Talk Tough - Program & info on child passenger safety, pre-teen/teen brain maturation and safety, underage drinking, teen drivers, firearm safety (research, effective presentations):

Parent-teen/family mediation:
A Few Good Books:

What About the Kids?: Raising Your Kids Before, During and After Divorce; Judith Wallerstein
Mom's House, Dad's House; Making Two Homes for Your Child- Isolina  Ricci
Parenting After  Divorce - Philip Stahl
Divorced Dad's  Survival Book:  How to Stay Connected to Your Kids; David Knox
Raising Cain- Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys; Kindlon & Thompson
The Wonder of Boys- Michael Gurion
Reviving Ophelia - Saving the Selves of Adolescent Girls; Mary Pipher
The Teen Brain Book- Who and What You Are; Dale Carlson
The Primal Teen; Barbara Strauch
Positive Discipline; Jane Nelson
Touchpoints:Your Child's Emotional and Behavioral Development;Brazelton  (0-3, 3-6 yrs.)
Caring for Your Baby and Young Child, American Adacemy of Pediatrics (2014 edition)

These free, confidential and interactive
web sites are highly recommended for Parents
: - for divorced/divorcing parents  for never-married parents